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we met in Grinnell

October 20, 2026

The Biologist and I

 

by Steven Duong



We love each other to death.

It’s an improbable thing we do

each week. She might move in

with my parents, who live small lives

somewhere sunnier. Ahead of us,

she says, are decades of discouraging

winters in vast and unknowable cities.

Today, what she wants is the sun.

Okay, I tell her. You’ll have your sun.

I’ll bring it to you. While I finish

my novel, you’ll be warm, glad,

fed a steady diet of Vietnamese

by two failed refugees. Our lives

are a golden net. I love the biologist

the way I love the biologist.

Once, she separated two damselflies

from their wings and swapped them.

It was science, she said, but also

a game. They couldn’t fly anymore,

but that didn’t stop them trying.

Damselflies spend years in water

for a week of flight, a raw deal

made long ago in the deep sea

of genomics. In her lab, they fell

like torn kites. My biologist made

fools of them. She’s a foolmonger

with her good legs and business

acumen. I need her more than God

needs hell. We met in Grinnell,

where the biologists are made

to read Rilke and the sun sets like

it’s dying. It’s not dying, of course.

If this novel ever sells, I’m buying

her the whole damn thing. 



Copyright © 2026 by Steven Duong. Originally published in Poem-a-Day on October 20, 2026, by the Academy of American Poets. 

 


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quoting Steven Duong who said...

“This is a sort of old-fashioned love poem. Like my favorite writing in this vein, it plainly expresses longing, makes a number of grand romantic gestures, and attempts to imagine a warmer, more beautiful future. I wrote it during a particularly miserable stretch of long distance with my now fiancée in the winter of 2021, and added the line about meeting in Grinnell while revisiting an old draft earlier this year, just after we got engaged. I wanted that little mention to feel, just for me, like a nod from the future speaker, affirming the success of his exercise in wish fulfillment.”

Posted October 20, 2026 04:42 AM | Reply to this comment

pilder said...

These days I rarely read the poem-a-day poems as they pile into my spam folder. But today it got my attention. Some things happen for a reason. All roads lead to Grinnell. Duong is a Grinnell College 2019 grad.

Posted October 20, 2026 04:44 AM | Reply to this comment

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